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r/AmItheAsshole · Posted by u/YouKnowYouThatBitch 5 hours ago.
AITA just because all of the drama in my (42M) family involves me?
I (42M) live with my non-traditional family in the same house, consisting of my brother Sam (38M), my best friend (also just started kinda trying dating) Cas (44M) and his adopted son Jack (4M). We usually all get along okay, but sometimes there’s drama. Big things, little things, whatever. Some examples: someone doesn’t do the dishes so it becomes a fight over dishes; someone’s son kills their best friend’s mom; someone’s brother won’t stop pestering them about their love of anime; someone’s best friend doesn’t answer the phone for 5 days; someone keeps leaving their sweaty gym socks in the entryway; someone is being overprotective of a sibling; someone keeps using up all the peanut butter for post-workout smoothies; someone lets their son DRAW on a CAR with CHALK… you know–the usual.
My brother suggested to me yesterday that the common denominator with all the drama in the house is me. He says I’m always one half of every conflict in the house. He pointed out that he and my best friend never fight, which makes him think the issue might be me most of the time and I might just be repressing my emotions until I explode instead of talking things out in a healthy way and that’s what causes all the drama in our house.
It is true that Sam and Cas don’t really fight each other, but I’m not convinced that that’s actually a sign of them being emotionally healthier than me. I actually think they’re both just good at pretending they’re fine with each other… and I think they should try fighting more often. I think THEY are repressing their frustrations with each other and just wait for me to manage all interpersonal problems in the house because they’re intimidated by conflict. So let me ask y’all: AITA just because all the drama in my family involves me?
Edit: /u/GetThis67 and /u/PB&J_is_life yeah I know your fuckin’ usernames. Why don’t you read some of this shit? See what you think. ;)
Edit2: YOU TWO ALWAYS PRETEND ONLY I HAVE PROBLEMS I KNEW THERE WAS A FUCKING BEEF I’M GETTING A BEER THEN COMING BACK HERE TO READ HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
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AangTheAvatar67 points · 5 hours ago
INFO: Without more details, we can’t really tell who’s right or who’s wrong. For example, if it’s really true that you handle all the emotional labor and they just wait for you to handle any problems in the house, NTA and the brother and best friend are both assholes. However, that could change to YTA depending on the details of the conflicts.
PerceptiveWon51 points · 5 hours ago
Here’s what I want to know: OP says the brother and best friend don’t fight… but do they get along? In other words, do they joke around, do things together one on one, etc. or do they just… stay out of each other’s way? Would love your thoughts u/YouKnowYouThatBitch.
YouKnowYouThatBitchOP43 points · 5 hours ago
Bingo. I’ve noticed more and more lately (ever since Cas moved in) that they treat each other like roommates who met on Craigslist and are just waiting for the lease to be up most of the time. I hang out with both of them one on one pretty often, but they rarely hang out with each other one on one unless it’s just for work. If I ask them how that went, they always get tight lipped about it and my spidey senses start tingling like I KNOW something happened, but I dunno what. It’s highly suspicious if you ask me. We’ve all known each other for like 12 years. They used to get into it a bit, but now they don’t… but the warmth is kinda gone too imo, ya know? They got into it in a really big way like… 9 or 10 years ago, and I kinda suspect they’ve been afraid of fighting each other ever since and it’s slowly put a strain on their friendship.
YouKnowYouThatBitchOP57 points · 5 hours ago
Alright–let’s go for a simple example: My brother keeps using too much peanut butter in his smoothies and we run out of the stuff. What’s worse is, he puts the goddamn jar back in the pantry even though it’s fucking empty, because apparently, he can’t be bothered to walk 5 feet to the trash can. This is kind of annoying for me when I’m making grocery lists, but I don’t eat a whole lot of peanut butter. Cas, on the other hand… LOVES PB&Js, and so does his kid. I can TELL it pisses him off when he’s spreading grape jelly on a piece of bread, then goes to pull the peanut butter jar out of the pantry only to realize there’s nothing in it, but he never says anything to Sam about it and just asks me to get more. So I had to be the one to tell Sam to stop being a jackass and throw away empty containers even though that’s like… Roommates 101.
Another example: Best friend’s kid drew on our car with chalk, and it scratched up the paint a bit. It is true that I love the car most, so I was pretty livid that Cas was apparently just standing there and watching him do it for the last 10 minutes while standing in the garage “supervising” because he doesn’t THINK sometimes… but the car also means a lot to my brother, because it was our dad’s car and we basically grew up riding around in it all over the country. I feel like he was irritated but refused to say anything, even after making the world’s most constipated face for the last 15 minutes because he was CLEARLY bothered.
Third example: Sam is the one who leaves his sweaty socks in the hallway, right after an 8 mile run… I am NOT the only one who smells it, but I am the only one with the balls to tell him to do his goddamn laundry.
4: Sam makes smoothies in a VERY loud blender at 4:30 in the morning.
WhatDidYouSay18 points · 5 hours ago
…What?
PB&J_is_life3 points · 5 hours ago
Dean I must have said 12 times that I am sorry about your car. I wasn’t thinking. I told you I was willing to look for a spell to fix it but you refused.
YouKnowYouThatBitchOP2 points · 4 hours ago
Cas, buddy, if you think I’m gonna let you use magic on my Baby, after YOUR track record with spells… you got another thing coming. xo <3
GetThis67 2 points · 4 hours ago
Dean… you don’t even care whether you’re the asshole. You’re just using this post passive aggressively to try and get a rise out of Cas and me. You are literally trying to BAIT us to fight, which just shows you being emotionally constipated more. It isn’t going to work, because Cas and I are actual adults. Btw, just because I was the one who suggested that the drama in the house is your fault doesn’t mean you have to use mainly examples about ME being a bad “roommate”. I mean, it’s not like Cas doesn’t do plenty of other annoying things you didn’t bother to mention.
PB&J_is_life1 point · 4 hours ago
Agreed. We are adults. Though… I would be interested to know what you mean about me doing “plenty of annoying things”. Perhaps Dean simply used more examples about you because you cause more problems in the common areas of the house.
GetThis671 point · 4 hours ago
…What does that mean?
PB&J_is_life0 points · 4 hours ago
It means that your moments of inconsiderate behavior as a cohabitant are clearly more widespread and damaging.
GetThis670 points · 4 hours ago
…You have GOT to be joking. You do remember that we share a bathroom, right? Is that enough of a common area for you? You know what? Dean doesn’t even know about this because he uses the bathroom further down the hall, but you have a MAJOR problem in the bathroom, Cas. It’s embarrassing. You leave the cap off the tube of your toothpaste after you brush your teeth and it just lays there on the counter all day… and guess who usually caves and cleans the bathroom?
PB&J_is_life2 points · 4 hours ago
Your hair clogs the shower drain. I have to remove it constantly. Perhaps you rightfully clean the bathroom more often since the mess mainly results from your hair.
GetThis672 points · 4 hours ago
YOU use all of the toilet paper! I swear to god you use half a fucking roll every time you use the toilet. WHY do you think I started buying Scotts? It’s because you clearly don’t understand how to wipe. Here’s a clue: wipe → fold → wipe again.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 4 hours ago
If the new brand of toilet paper was intended to cause irritation to my anus and therefore cause me to use less toilet paper… that was incredibly malicious and cruel. You could have dealt with it by simply telling me instead of hanging us both.
GetThis670 points · 4 hours ago
You deserve Scotts, and for your information, the only one in pain is you. I have a secret stash of Charmin Ultra Strong. If you’re going to use half a roll no matter what, at least Scotts is better for the sewage system.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 4 hours ago
I HAVE ONLY BEEN DEFECATING FOR TWO YEARS, SAM. I APOLOGIZE IF THE EFFICIENCY OF MY USE OF FECAL PAPER ISN’T UP TO YOUR STANDARDS.
Hasn’t Dean ever taught you that nickeling and diming is simply uncouth?
GetThis670 points · 4 hours ago
Dean is the KING of nickeling and diming, which just goes to show how much you know about my brother. Who do you think took care of the finances growing up?
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PB&J_is_life0 points · 4 hours ago
I feel, if we are being honest with one another, that I should note that it does bother me that you use inordinate amounts of peanut butter at random… but it is a further cruelty that you give me false hope by returning the empty jar to the pantry. I know it is a small thing, but it does become grating over time… especially when I must also see my own crushed hopes mirrored in Jack’s eyes. I understood why Dean was angry and appreciated him mentioning it, even if he seemed to address it in a manner that I initially thought may have been overly harsh. Upon closer consideration, his level of ire was appropriate. I feel you deserved it after repeated incidents. You also do this with the almond milk in the refrigerator, but Dean doesn’t notice since he doesn't drink it and refuses to buy it at the grocery store.
GetThis670 points · 4 hours ago
Maybe you should buy your own goddamn almond milk and your own goddamn peanut butter… and your own toilet paper for that matter. Maybe you could afford it if you’d get a job.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 4 hours ago
I am an antiquer.
GetThis671 point · 4 hours ago
Get a job THAT PAYS THE BILLS.
PB&J_is_life1 point · 4 hours ago
While they are rare to come by, cursed necklaces go for a hefty sum. Besides, you are hardly one to talk. You play pool for money… and Dean is better at it.
GetThis670 points · 4 hours ago
That’s not even true. I kill at pool! This is the poker argument all over again.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 4 hours ago
While your skill at the actual game is nearly equal to your brother’s, he is far superior at flirting with the other players to get them to offer more money, and thus secures far superior sums. You are also a terrible actor. It isn’t believable when you pretend to be drunk.
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GetThis671 point · 4 hours ago
Also, if we’re being honest with each other, it DID bother me when you let Jack draw on Baby. I know I told Dean to calm down, but I didn’t mean it–I just didn’t want a fight in front of Jack. Seriously though–HOW could you be so inconsiderate?
PB&J_is_life0 points · 4 hours ago
I’M SORRY. I HAVE APOLOGIZED MULTIPLE TIMES. I OFFERED TO FIND A SPELL TO FIX IT.
GetThis671 point · 4 hours ago
Sorry, but Dean’s response to this was spot on.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 4 hours ago
As if your spells turn out any better. You unleashed The Darkness using a book made from human skin.
GetThis672 points · 3 hours ago
YOU HELPED ME DO IT.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 3 hours ago
Yes, and then as I recall, I was cursed by Rowena, which is your fault. You clearly secured her shackles inadequately.
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GetThis67 2 points · 3 hours ago
Alright, /u/PB&J_is_life. If we’re going for honesty now… this has REALLY been bothering me: WHY the FUCK won’t you catalogue the books in the library properly? I must have explained the system to you 50 times. I know you’re not stupid. This is clearly intentional and vindictive.
PB&J_is_life-1 points · 3 hours ago
The books should be arranged by author and date, not title and topic.
GetThis672 points · 3 hours ago
No. No no no no NO NO!!! Half our books don’t even HAVE an author. We arrange by TOPIC and TITLE. NOBODY but you wants to search for books by PUBLISHING DATE. Do you have any idea how big the “Author Unknown” section would be if we did it your way? It makes things insufferable, and I have a spreadsheet this all goes with and you’re fucking it up!
PB&J_is_life0 points · 3 hours ago
I know who the authors of most of those books are even if they have been lost to human knowledge.
GetThis671 point · 3 hours ago
THAT DOESN’T HELP ME, A HUMAN, FIND THEM. Is THAT why I’m missing like 50 fucking books right now?? Where the FUCK did you put “A Treatise on Lycanthrope 18th Century Magic”?? Rowena has been asking for it for MONTHS. FUCK I can’t WAIT until I’ve finished digitzing the library and don’t have to deal with your TERRORIZATION of my system every time you decide to peruse something!
ScaredyKat11 points · 3 hours ago
All this talk of witchcraft and books bound in human skin and now this emphasis on human is making me really uneasy. Is u/PB&J_is_life not a human?
GetThis670 points · 2 hours ago
Clearly not. He’s subhuman.
ConcernedCitizen5 points · 1 hours ago
Also is Rowena okay???? Is she still chained up somewhere???
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PB&J_is_life2 points · 3 hours ago
@GetThis67 The fact that you try to switch the coffee to decaf by 9:30AM is criminal.
GetThis670 points · 3 hours ago
It’s /u/GetThis67 not @GetThis67 to tag another user, dumbass.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 3 hours ago
Fine, /u/GetThis67. The fact that you try to switch the coffee to decaf by 9:30AM is criminal.
Perhaps you could learn to be less condescending. I may not understand “internet culture” very well, but I have eons of knowledge at my disposal and speak 123 languages, many of which are lost to time. You should show me some respect.
GetThis670 points · 3 hours ago
There’s always frozen concentrate Lee's coffee in the fridge. Drinking too many hot drinks is bad for you anyway. See this youtube video.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 3 hours ago
Hot coffee is bad for us but you are drinking coffee laced with enough sugar that Jack actually enjoys it. Not only are you condescending about many things, but your application of health facts is inconsistent.
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YouKnowYouThatBitchOP1 point · 3 hours ago
Wait… is this why I keep falling asleep after lunch???
GetThis67-1 points · 3 hours ago
You’re falling asleep after lunch because you eat a mountain of food and fall into a food coma.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 3 hours ago
This is also a good time to mention that you fat shame your brother, which is rude and non-PC according to the articles I have been reading on the Buzzfeed. I don’t like it and think it is a bad example to set for Jack.
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PerpetuallyOnline2 points · 2 hours ago
Actually, the first slash is unnecessary… just FYI.
GetThis672 points · 3 hours ago
/u/PB&J_is_life If you play the 1 hour loop of Baby Shark for Jack ever again I am going to break your phone in half.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 3 hours ago
Children are a blessing and should be indulged.
GetThis670 points · 3 hours ago
Children shouldn’t be allowed to watch videos that melt their brains with constant flashing lights. It’s bad for their development!
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PB&J_is_life1 point · 2 hours ago
/u/GetThis67 The fact that you run your blender at 4:30 in the morning truly is insufferable… not to mention I know during those moments that you are likely using 3/4ths of the peanut butter jar while pretending what you are consuming is healthy and that it makes you better than the rest of us.
GetThis671 point · 2 hours ago
Maybe you should try waking up before 12:30. Also, you leave your nail clippings on the table in the library.
PB&J_is_life1 point · 2 hours ago
You’re the only person in the house that associates getting up in the middle of the night with healthy living… but that isn’t a surprise. You can be preachy and it becomes incredibly grating at times. For example, I would like to enjoy a burger without hearing you rant to the rest of the table about the environmental impact of cow flatulence. I agree with Dean that tofu burgers are an abomination, and your suggestion that we all switch to eating turkey bacon because it “tastes the same” is mystifyingly inaccurate to the point that it is actually offensive to those of us with a sense of taste.
GetThis670 points · 2 hours ago
You can’t sweep a floor to save your life. It’s like you just move the dirt around along the ground instead of actually picking anything up. When you use the mop there is ZERO elbow grease… it’s like you’re painting with a feather. There’s a reason I didn’t say anything when Dean snapped at you.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 2 hours ago
Your sweaty socks are lying in the hallway as we speak. I feel the need to hold my breath every time I pass by them. Also, just yesterday, you threw a food wrapper into the trashcan and missed, and didn’t bother picking it up.
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GetThis671 point · 2 hours ago
Btw–you don’t get to talk about pretending to be better than everyone else. Ever since you lost your grace and moved in, you complain CONSTANTLY about the human condition. “Oh I’m so sick of urinating it’s repugnant”. “Ugh you humans have a terrible obsession with time.” VERY speciesist and privileged… Not all of us live forever and feel like we can sit around “communing with the brothers and sisters” for an eon. Not to mention you were just complaining about Dean bitching at you for not answering our calls… AGAIN. We JUST wanted to know if you were going to be back Wednesday or Thursday.
PB&J_is_life-1 points · 2 hours ago
I don’t see why a day’s difference matters.
GetThis671 point · 2 hours ago
Because WE WERE WATCHING JACK… PLUS we wanted to know you were SAFE. I DON’T appreciate you giving my brother with PTSD near panic attacks because YOU WON’T ANSWER THE PHONE.
YouKnowYouThatBitchOP1 point · 2 hours ago
THANK you.
Is it really that hard for you to have my back on shit like this??
GetThis67-1 points · 2 hours ago
I don't wanna get in the middle of your relationship, Dean.
YouKnowYouThatBitchOP1 point · 2 hours ago
...Dude. I'm not gonna get into it with you right now but you are literally the ultimate cockblock.
PB&J_is_life1 point · 2 hours ago
...This claim is more mystifying than your comments about bacon.
PB&J_is_life-1 points · 2 hours ago
Does this really bother you that much, Dean?
GetThis670 points · 2 hours ago
Jesus Christ. You know what? I’m not agreeing to talk Dean out of going on another hunt for YOUR benefit until you start answering the phone WITHIN THE HOUR.
YouKnowYouThatBitchOP1 point · 2 hours ago
…Wait what?
GetThis671 point · 2 hours ago
Don’t worry about it.
PB&J_is_life 1 point1 · 2 hours ago
Nothing.
GetThis670 points · 2 hours ago
/u/PB&J_is_life You need to accept the fact that Jimmy Novak was lactose intolerant and stop eating cheese. It gives you terrible gas.
PB&J_is_life1 point · 2 hours ago
I would rather die.
GetThis67-1 points · 2 hours ago
There are some great vegan substitutes!!
PB&J_is_life1 point · 2 hours ago
I would rather die.
GetThis67-1 points · 2 hours ago
There’s seriously some good ones! I’ve made you a really long list before!
PB&J_is_life1 point · 2 hours ago
I threw your list in the trash as soon as you left the room… and I didn’t miss the trashcan like you.
YouKnowYouThatBitchOP1 point · 2 hours ago
…Okay. We can go on another date this weekend.
GetThis67-1 points · 2 hours ago
Oh, so you bitch about me stinking up the car (which NEVER happens), but it’s okay when Cas does it???
YouKnowYouThatBitchOP1 point · 2 hours ago
I respect a man who refuses to live in a sick little world of deceit about cheese substitutes being good and suffers the gastrointestinal consequences for love. Your gas is caused by rabbit food.
GetThis670 points · 2 hours ago
/u/PB&J_is_life, since we’re now the kind of people who air our dirty laundry in public, let’s talk about your downright barbaric habit of BLASTING MUSIC AT MAXIMUM VOLUME IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT. I know that you don’t have to sleep, but THE REST OF US ARE HUMAN. Ergo, we sleep.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 2 hours ago
I don’t do this anymore. I’m human now (I don't know why you keep forgetting this by the way). But I hardly see how you have a right to complain considering your obsession with your Ninja blender.
GetThis670 points · 2 hours ago
It takes 30 seconds or less to make a smoothie, but your music goes on for AGES, and worst of all, you don’t even listen to good music!
PB&J_is_life0 points · 2 hours ago
YOU TAKE THAT BACK. I see the face of my Father when I hear Lizzo’s voice.
GetThis670 points · 2 hours ago
Which just makes your obsession so fucking weird, because your dad’s like the patriarch of that family in Ready Or Not. Who wants to see his face? What’s worse is that your brother is literally Satan, so you guys won’t even burst into flames when all’s said and done.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 2 hours ago
So you want me to die a bloody death in front of your brother? Is that it?
GetThis670 points · 2 hours ago
You’re the one who’s saying that. Stop putting words into my mouth.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 2 hours ago
That’s literally what you said.
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FlashlightRestoration6 points · 2 hours ago
WTF were you before???
PB&J_is_life-3 points · 2 hours ago
An angel of the Lord.
WillReportU7 points · 2 hours ago
Istg, if you guys are doing a DnD session on AITA of all subs…
TrogdorTheBurninator3 points · 1 hour ago
I’m a DM and I can guarantee you that angels of the Lord have no place in DnD.
SirEddie864 points · 1 hour ago
Only if you’re still using the 1st edition. Angels definitely make an appearance in the second, third, and fifth editions.
PB&J_is_life1 point · 2 hours ago
/u/GetThis67 Nobody likes listening to NPR on road trips except for you. I pretended in order to be polite. It bores Jack to tears and the Dean clearly would prefer to listen to his tapes. While it does break up the monotony of his Led Zeppelin songs, the static coming from the radio gives me a headache and makes me think of angel radio. I do not like it. It makes me carsick.
GetThis670 points · 2 hours ago
Of course you don’t like it. I am a man of taste and culture. You are something that starts with s and rhymes with brine.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 2 hours ago
And what would you call your brother?
GetThis670 points · 2 hours ago
…You do realize that Dean does appreciate NPR, right? He might not listen to them, but he reads the website. My brother is a man who appreciates the finer things in life. He pretends that he doesn’t, but we all know that he’s the one who enjoys The Wire. You’re the one who watches Jersey Shore and Jenny Jones.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 2 hours ago
Wait a moment… are you trying to insinuate that I think your brother is simple minded? Clearly, you are projecting. Last week, you tried to alienate Dean out of going to the movies with you (everyone knew you were actually going to hell for the weekend to visit Rowena by the way) by saying you were going to see “a documentary that you obviously wouldn’t enjoy because it isn’t about cars or sex”. You constantly reduce your brother down to someone who only likes porn when it suits the supercilious jokes you want to make, and your hatred for his anime shows is unfounded.
GetThis670 points · 2 hours ago
I watched Death Note with him didn’t I???
PB&J_is_life0 points · 2 hours ago
So you agree? You only acknowledge that Dean is smart when it suits you in the moment to believe he is?
YouKnowYouThatBitchOP1 point · 1 hours ago
Okay wait woah woah woah–let’s not make all this about me. I wanted to see you two argue about like socks in the hall and the peanut butter jars and shit.
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GetThis67-1 points · 1 hour ago
/u/PB&J_is_life, also, LET’S TALK ABOUT HOW YOU TREAT MY BROTHER LIKE A TROPHY WIFE. Newsflash, asshole, it’s not the 50s anymore and you don’t get to live out your antiquated fantasies with my brother. You have mastered the art of being sexist to your partner DESPITE BEING IN A HOMOSEXUAL RELATIONSHIP. Congratulations, man, you’re a real douchebag.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 1 hour ago
I do not treat Dean like a trophy wife. Also, how dare you call me "antiquated" when you’re the one who's weirdly obsessed with Dean’s virtue, as though he were a Victorian maiden in need of a chaperone. I have been with your brother for over a decade and you still make me obtain your permission before I can enter his room.
GetThis670 points · 1 hour ago
Yeah, because you’re a fucking asshole. Hey, remember when you forgot my soul in Lucifer’s cage and Dean freaked the fuck out? And how did you respond? You said, nah, this is GOOD enough, never mind that the body– yes, the empty vessel– of your brother is a murderous robot that threw you to the vamps, no, you gotta make do with the cheap knockoff ‘cause your man is broke as fuck. You told my brother to STFU and be satisfied like my soul was a Prada handbag and not the VERY ESSENCE OF MY BEING. Oh, and you pretended that this wasn’t your fuck-up. EVEN THOUGH IT WAS 100% YOUR RESPONSIBILITY.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 1 hour ago
I already apologized, didn’t I?
GetThis670 points · 1 hour ago
No, you promised you’d make it up to my brother and then YOU FUCKED OFF AND LEFT HIM IN PURGATORY. ALONE.
PB&J_is_life0 points · 1 hour ago
If I recall correctly, you did the exact same thing. Then you told your brother that you’d leave him if he had the audacity to be mad at you. Then you tried to kill the only friend he had left at that point, the man who’d rescued him from Purgatory after you’d let him down– AGAIN– and then you proceeded to brutalize him emotionally for the next year and a half. So you need to take a piss and check your reflection in it, because you are NOT the knight in shining armor you think you are.
YouKnowYouThatBitchOP0 points · 1 hour ago
OKAY this is getting out of hand. I am ending this subthread. Sam, if you keep posting, you’re gonna be on dish duty for the rest of your life. Cas, if you keep posting, you’re gonna be on mop duty for the rest of your life.
PB&J_is_life1 point · 27 min. ago
Sam. I have taken the last 57 minutes to reflect after Dean’s reply. He is right. This has gotten out of hand. I feel especially bad about my response to this comment. It was snappish and cold. I’m sorry.
GetThis671 point · 19 min. ago
Yeah. I also took a step back and looked at the amount of text we’ve hurled at each other over the last four hours. Jesus. We’ve gone on for ages. I’m sorry too. I really lost my temper.
GetThis671 point · 14 min. ago
I dismissed it at first, but Dean is right. There’s… clearly a lot of baggage here between us that I think we’ve avoided… Maybe because it was easier… maybe because we were afraid of what would happen if we really talked about it.
PB&J_is_life1 point · 12 min. ago
I think so too.
PB&J_is_life1 point ·10 min. ago
Sam… I want to make sure you know that I did not leave your soul in The Cage because I didn’t care. I genuinely didn’t realize it had separated from your body. I promise you. I was trying to do the right thing when I went into that cage… I was trying to rescue you–all of you… just as I rescued Dean. After, when I did know your soul was missing… I chose to believe it was irrelevant and not worth saving… because that was what I needed to believe to continue my mission. In my hubris, I needed to believe that souls didn’t actually matter… because I was stealing them and using up their essence for power. When I think back on those days, and the things that I said and did to both you and Dean… I feel shame.
I think we should speak to each other about all of these matters in person. Just the two of us.
GetThis671 point · 5 min. ago
You’re right. I think we should.
I think a part of me has always thought you just… tolerated me. I really wanted you to like me when we first met. Then I thought we did care about each other… then you… broke my brain. And… I don’t know.
PB&J_is_life1 points · 2 min. ago
I wanted you to like me as well.
I have shared some of the same concerns over our friendship.
Perhaps we could discuss further over acai bowls at The Green Food Place that we both enjoy.
YouKnowYouThatBitchOP0 points · 8 min. ago
You bet your ass “just the two of us.”
Time2Slice&Dice0 points · 5 min. ago
Maybe you should also apologize to Dean for blaming him for everything and making him handle all the conflict in the house.
GetThis671 point · 3 min. ago
Dean I know that’s your alt.
Time2Slice&Dice0 points · 1 min. ago
I’m just gonna leave this here and peace out. I expect more appreciation for putting up with you two weirdos from here on out. See, Sam, I, too, can be sensitive.
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