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MisterSeo020J
How To Tell My Gay Son I'm Supportive But...
I'd be a little less supportive if he ended up dating his annoying friend (enemy?) (SJ) who steals our food and his stuff than I would be if he dated his friend from his high school who doesn't steal anything and is incredibly sweet. (HT) Tips on how to tell him without sounding homophobic?
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CruelWorld • 2 days ago
Just tell him that the nice one is more handsome.
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MisterSeo020J • 2 days ago
Wouldn't that be rude?
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WolfKSJ • 2 days ago
The "thief" one is better. Trust me.
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MisterSeo020J • 2 days ago
How are you so sure? You haven't even met him. I'm simply concerned about my son and the outcome of his possible relationship.
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WolfKSJ • 2 days ago
Just a gut feeling, pops, no offense. You don't even know if the bad guy in the story is a real bad guy. Maybe he's doing it out of love.
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slamkuragi • 2 days ago
Don't be rude to Mr. Seo, you don't even know him
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WolfKSJ • 2 days ago
That implies YOU do. Tell me more about this "thief" and how he's sooo much worse than the kind guy?
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slamkuragi • 2 days ago
I'm not rooting for the nice one either. He's my best friend and I personally think there's plenty of fish in the sea. Mr. Seo's son can fish for more.
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MisterSeo020J • 2 days ago
You must be one of his friends! Or could it be a coincidence you and his friend like Slam Dunk? Oh, well.. are you sure about this? That there's "better" than HT?
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slamkuragi • 2 days ago
Yessir, Mr. Seo. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but Mr. Nice Guy has a boyfriend already.
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MisterSeo020J • 2 days ago
That's nice! Would you happen to know who it is?
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slamkuragi • 2 days ago
It's me, Mister Seo. 🫡 4 months in!
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MisterSeo020J • 2 days ago
Oh. If my son hadn't told me the first time I saw you two, I would've thought you guys have been together for more.
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WolfKSJ • 2 days ago
This means Mr. Bad Guy is the only option left
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MisterSeo020J • 2 days ago
Get out of my comments!! Don't encourage SJ's behavior! You're starting to remind me of him!!!
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hyeeooontk • 1 day ago
Hello and good evening, Mr. Seo. I am HT in this situation, and I do not want your son near SJ either. He's a threat to the entirety of society. My advice here is that you let your son meet more people instead of letting him date a lunatic riding a motorcycle.
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MisterSeo020J • 1 day ago
Finally, someone agrees! That boy is crazy. I don't understand how my son learned how to tolerate him.
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WolfKSJ • 1 day ago
that one dude NOBODY invited ?
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jjun223 • 5 hours ago
Dad...? 😥
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MisterSeo020J • 4 hours ago
Oh.. it's embarrassing you found this post. I constantly worry about accidentally offending you. I'm sorry.
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jjun223 • 2 hours ago
It's okay! Just tell me what's on your mind, and I won't judge. You can text me anytime and I'll reply whenever, or when you get home.
But when it's things like.. these.. approach me directly, and I'll tell you everything! From top to bottom, chapter 1 to the last..
I can't excuse all of his actions, but he's on a journey to change. And I can see how dedicated he is, whether he's with me or not. I find it charming that he found it within himself to try, and to act. And I won't jump into the relationship just yet- I want him to show me his best true self before I can confirm I want to be with him, really. :)
But I'm happy you're concerned enough to put up a post on a board full of strangers.. it is just a teensy bit humiliating. Love you, dad.
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MisterSeo020J • 20 minutes ago
Noted.
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WolfKSJ • 15 minutes ago
omfg i'm finally dad-approved this took longer than it should've
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MisterSeo020J • 5 minutes ago
So it was you!? No wonder you were so troublesome!
But if this is what my son wants.. I guess I'll have to see from his perspective.
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